You will enjoy reading Larry Ferlazzo’s view and expert advice about helping support families in schools.

Read: Why paying parents to attend school is wrong.

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It is the seemingly little things that count when parents are involved.

September 2, 2010

My daily alerts pointed me to this blog post by Penny

Penny shared some information written by Dr. Jeynes from his article in the Teachers College Record about what really makes a difference in student learning and it is not the number of hours parents volunteer at school.
Penny summarizes Dr. Jeynes findings:

1. Parental expectations. This does not mean demanding that your child get all A’s. What it means is believing, year after year, that your child will achieve, learn, and go to college. Parents communicate this belief through conversation but also by action, such as sacrificing to save for their child’s college education. This one factor is about four times more powerful than the traditional forms of parent involvement mentioned above.

2. Second most important is parental style. A style that shows love, support, and “reasonable” discipline has a strong effect on student learning.

3. Finally, loving, open communication between parent and child is key. Such two-way communication develops over years, not overnight. It allows parents to communicate expectations, support, and rules.

Continue reading Penny’s thought provoking post:

Too often schools focus on the need for parent attendance at schools events, volunteering in the classroom and chaperoning on school trips because that is what schools need from parents.
Beyond the classroom parents have a more important role to play and those 3 points sum it all up. What parents need is support for being a parent.

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Personal invitation – increasing parent involvement at school.

August 30, 2010

Ever since I stumbled upon George Couros blog post Parents and Education Planning I have been following the views of some administrators at Connected Principals
Today I read Larry Fliegelman’s posting Inform, Invite, Perform (and Feed): A Plan to Increase Parental Involvement
Larry talks about the importance of regularly communicating with parents, how important it is to be consistent with newsletters and to use e-newsletters to keep parents updated.
I had to chuckle when I read his thoughts about feeding parents. I wonder though do people think that parents come because you feed them ( they don’t know how to cook??) I like to suggest that besides the notion that eating together is a sign of friendship providing refreshments demonstrates a recognition of the limited time parents have to participate in activities at school.
I agree with Larry about how important it is to invite parents to participate in activities at school. One of the Principals in the NCDSB Parent Reaching Out Project made this observation; “newletters are good but most people think that requests for help posted in a newsletter are meant for someone else.”
Syl Roach, former chair of the Niagara Catholic Regional School Council, shares her experiences about the personal invitation and how helpful it is in getting parents to attend at school. Click the player – it is a short clip.

I wonder though are we spending considerable energy getting parents to read at school, participate in events at school and raising money because that is what schools need from parents? Or are we thinking of parents as educational assets? Might it be a good idea to shift the focus to Teachers Involving Parents in schoolwork. By that I mean more than homework help. I mean creating learning opportunities that invite parent participation in their child’s learning. Are we inviting parents to help their child practise their oral presentations by video taping the child’s speech and reviewing the recording with a teacher checklist “good things to look for in public speaking”?
Day 347: Oh no, more gadgets!
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Are we encouraging parents to blog with their students? Have we showed them how to conduct a safe Google search?
I know that there are a small percentage of parents who have the time and opportunity to participate in activities at school and that leaves a large number of families who are not connected to their child’s learning. What good practices are you using to create opportunities that engage parents??

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Parenting in the Digital Age by David Truss

August 30, 2010

Kim Caise pointed me to Raising Digital Kids wikispace created by David Truss. This is a really solid resource for both parents and teachers to us to work together around parenting and parenting in a digital age. You will want to review Parents as Partners: Questions and Advice for a series of questions and suggestions about how to help raise children in a digital age. Teachers will find this a wonderful support document for working with families in their school.

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Connecting parents to the classroom using cell phones

August 30, 2010

A Smart Phone
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Lisa Neilsen theinnovateeducator has some great ideas to share in her blog post
6 Ways to Use Cell Phones to Strengthen the Home-School Connection.

The first of the six is Google SMS – Translate. It is an excellent example of how to communicate with parents and families whose first language is not English – in the city of Toronto that is probably 50% of the families that attend English language schools. This would sure make a difference. I am anxious to hear how you as a parent feel about using these applications. Would you connect with your classroom teacher using these applications?

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Students, Welcome to College – Parents, Go Home – NYTimes.com

August 24, 2010

This is a new term to me "velcro parents" how do you feel about this description for parents?
Posted from Diigo. The rest of my favorite links are here.

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VolunteerSpot: Online and Offline Strategies for Boosting Parent Involvement

August 20, 2010

Classroom 2.0 Live Saturday August 19, 2010 at 12 Noon EDT

Please join Peggy George, Kim Caise and Lorna Costantini as they welcome Karen Bantuveris, Founder of VolunteerSpot. If you have ever tried to organize a community event at your school and ended up doing it all yourself because it was too hard to keep track of every one, Karen has an answer for you.

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That’s it, I’m done! What if parent involvement is not working for parents?

August 18, 2010

“That’s it, I’m done.” Well…..not yet anyways, but the phrase seems to have a whole new meaning recently.

I have remained involved in education in many ways. The way I see it, I am involved in the lives of my kids, which includes their education experiences as well. Has it been wrong to think I could make a difference in education as a parent in addition to the home support I give—at the school level or beyond? Will I be judged about the kind of home support I give as they get older? (I am usually the one telling the kids to stop doing homework!). So as much as I have been committed to having a voice in education as well as an interest in understanding and being informed about the environments my kids are in, I would understand any parent who gets to the point of “That’s it, I’m done”.
The mixed messages can be really tough and confusing to work through. Who should we help….how should we help….where is our help really wanted? How do we be partners in one area if we don’t feel like partners in another? Is there criteria? A secret resource? How can I avoid the scrutiny that can come from being not involved enough just as easy as it comes from being involved too much? Is worry about labels like “helicopter parent” causing some of us to back away from parenting and/or parent involvement that might really matter or make a difference?

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Wi-Fi in the classroom – is it a health risk?

August 17, 2010

The papers are full of the story about how a group of parents in Simcoe County in Ontario is taking their school board to task for using Wi-Fi internet connections. I am sure that all Ontario school boards are or will be facing a challenge about the safety of Wi-Fi in schools. I blogged recently about how I think great it is that Wi-Fi was being used in this school and how proactive I think the school is in setting an example. Any attempts to respond to students’ need to operate in a digital age is welcome. I still think that connectivity is a key element in keeping our students ready to participate in the global classroom.

If you visit safeschools.ca, the website of the parents who are complaining, you will get a completely different view. In a nutshell- Wi-Fi is making our children sick.

So there are two topics that arise from this subject. First the safety of Wi-Fi and second the ability of parents to come together, make a statement and have the world sit up and pay attention.

The debate about the safety of Wi-Fi will go on for years to come. Note the recent comment to my previous post. I don’t have the expertise to make a comment for or against using Wi-Fi in schools. I hope that it is proven wrong. I can, however, comment on the ability of parents to make a difference in their schools and how important it is for parents to have the same access to information and tools to examine and present information about schools and about students. Whether you agree or not about the Wi_Fi issue you can’t deny that people are listening.

Can you shed more light on the subject of Wi-Fi? If you are using Wi-Fi are you seeing the behaviour of your students change since you started using W-Fi connectivity? Are your students demonstrating the signs of illness?

You have to give this group credit for creating an online presence, gathering together experts on the subject and getting their message out into the media. I wonder though about at what price? Not every parent group has access to these people or resources. How best do, parents who have limited resources, share their concerns and get attention – resolution to their issues?

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Parents field guide to parents

August 15, 2010

I knew it would not take long for a parent field guide to appear. April McCaffery @parentella has penned her response to Jason Flom’s Teacher’s Field Guide for Parents. April aptly describes what parents think and feel and what people might be missing when they talk about parents.

I hope the humour still remains high in the discussions. I saw myself in a lot of Jason’s words. Parents, rightly so, have one thought and that is the well being and success of their child. That is the reason that I was involved ( still am) in school activities, school board governance and the education sector. I really like how April empathizes with parents and reminds everyone what a precious role we have as parents. What good counsel in suggesting that we think of all parents as people trying to make a good living and doing the best they can every day.

BUT
There has to be a come back.

How would you fill a Parent’s Field Guide to Teachers?

Go ahead – add your thoughts – but the challenge is to provide an answer that everyone can use and still keep laughing.

Spying the Pope
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